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A week after the terrorist attacks on New York City and Washington, and days after the accidental death of junior Mark Stokes, members of the campus community are providing – and receiving – comfort.
Everyone is “working overtime to answer questions like 'Why did the World Trade Center attacks happen and why did it take one of our own?'” observed Viki Brooks-McDonald, protestant chaplain.
“I am stunned by the support that has come from this campus,” she said.
Support came in many forms: fundraisers by fraternities and sororities, candlelight vigils at the base of the flagpole, discussions by religious and student groups.
The College's Alumni Relations office and Web services created a check-in page for alumni on Wednesday, the day after the attacks. A week later, the site had drawn responses from some 4,000 alumni with notes ranging from “I'm OK” to “please remember what you learned at Union. We must retain our American and righteous ideals of democracy, justice, and due process.”
“We just wanted to provide a service,” said Nick Famulare, director of alumni relations. “People are expressing their hopes and prayers for the Union community and family members.”
Alumni Relations and Dining Services have joined to sponsor “Message in a Bottle,” in which people buy a bottle of Union College water and write a message to a rescue worker. On Wednesday, about 6000 water bottles had been purchased for delivery, according to Kate Stefanik '01, assistant director of alumni relations, who developed the program.
Students, faculty and staff wrote their thoughts on large banners near the south entry of Reamer Campus Center. Sentiments included “God bless America,” “Do not start a war,” and “I just ask that we don't do the same to others that has happened to us.” The banners, or perhaps pictures of them, may be sent to New York City, according to Matt Milless, director of student activities, who coordinated the banner program and several vigils during the past week.
Brooks-McDonald, speaking of the enormity of the College's grieving over the past week, said, “The (chaplains) in the basement of Silliman Hall … are suddenly called to explain these tragedies to huge numbers of people.
“I didn't sign on for this,” she recalls of choosing to become a campus chaplain. “I thought I'd be doing mostly weddings. But it's about kids, about youth. We (faculty and staff) have to try to find a way to work through our own fright and we have to work with kids who are new to this.”
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