The widow of Mister Rogers changed the lyrics of one of her husband's signature songs to remind Union College graduates — as her husband would have — that what makes them special is what's inside.
Quoting from “It's You I Like,” Joanne Rogers added, “It's not your diplomas, they're just beside you.”
Speaking to 600 graduates at Union College today (June 15, 2003), Joanne Rogers also quoted from one of her husband's favorite phrases, a line from The Little Prince: “What is essential is invisible to the eyes.”
“What is invisible about you?” she asked the graduates. “There is at least one person … who believed in you. We don't get to be confident human beings without someone investing in us.”
Mrs. Rogers closed her remarks with a story her husband liked to tell about himself and a case of mistaken identity: Once, while boarding a plane, Mr. Rogers saw a flight attendant carefully watching him. When he approached, she excitedly remarked, “Oh, I just love your popcorn.”
“We called him 'Orville' for quite some time,” Mrs. Rogers said, referring to popcorn magnate Orville Reddenbacher. “Now they're both in heaven having a good laugh over it.”
The host of Mister Rogers' Neighborhood,
the longest-running show on PBS, had agreed to be the speaker and accept an
honorary degree from Union. He died on Feb.
27 at the age of 74 after a brief battle with stomach cancer.
Instead of the
usual commencement address, Dean of Students Fred Alford and seniors Pooja Kothari and Katrina Tentor read a tribute that included some of Rogers' words. Mrs. Rogers accepted his degree, an honorary doctor
of letters.
“To honor the life
and work of a man who has meant so much to so many is the right thing to do,”
said Union College President Roger H. Hull. “I felt strongly – and our students
agreed – that while we could not enjoy the company of Fred Rogers at
Commencement, we could use his words to convey his meaningful messages about
kindness, compassion and learning. All the things that Fred Rogers stood for –
especially his strong advocacy for children and his passionate belief that
television can be an instrument of nurture – will long be remembered.”
In
2002, Rogers came
out of broadcasting retirement to record public service announcements telling
parents how to help children deal with the anniversary of the September 11
attacks. The same year, he received the Presidential Medal of Freedom from
President George W. Bush.
Christopher Roblee of Waltham, Mass., was valedictorian. Dmitry Abramov of Guilderland and Richard Misiaszek
of Marcy, N.Y., were co-salutatorians.
Jeffrey Silver of Oyster Bay, N.Y., delivered the student
address.
Union College
awarded 494 bachelor's degrees, and 125 master's degrees under sunny skies in the Library Plaza ceremony.