News of special interest to Union families

Over the course of our past two years as Parents Association co-chairs, we have received an enormous amount of feedback from “our” parents. This has helped us to know what is on the minds of both the parents and their students. One item we want to address is the issue of students getting involved. We can tell you-as parents of a very active junior-that there are plenty of opportunities for students to get involved if they decide this is what they want to do. First, take a look at the Student Activities web page at http://union.edu/campus/. Please read comments on the next page from Tom McEvoy, dean of residential and campus life.
We thought you might be interested in an update on the presidential search. At press time, both the College's search committee was fully engaged in finding the right candidate. People wishing to pass suggestions and nominations to the search committee can do so via the search site at http://www.unionsearch.org. For the most up-to-date information on the search, please visit http://www.union.edu/ presidentialsearch/.
As we approach the end of the school year, we would like to join Bill Gottdenker, Parents Fund chair, in a request for participation in this year's Fund. We understand that giving a gift in addition to paying tuition is not easy. However, simply participating is a gesture that tells Union and other parents how much we appreciate the overall experience our children are receiving. And, if the responses to the Parents Questionnaires are an indication, most parents feel-even if they have a certain issue-that Union is overall a quality institution providing a very special experience for their children. You may designate your gift to whatever program or area you wish, but please participate. We thank you in advance for considering this.
Finally, as the 2004-05 year draws to its close, we would like to thank our outgoing chairs:
Sue and Ed Young '72 have helped coordinate Parent Events and Programs. Their daughter, Jacqueline, graduates this year. We would like to thank them for all they have done including hosting numerous Freshman Sendoffs, recruiting volunteers for events, and staffing events like Spring Family Weekend and Parents Orientation.
We thank Charlotte Floyd for her leadership of the Welcome Wagon Callers this year. Char's daughter Allison, graduates in June, moving the Floyds into
the ranks of “parents of alumni.” Char took care of sending out lists of incoming freshmen families to eager volunteers who welcomed them with a phone call and an offer to answer questions. This is a very well-received program, and we thank Char for helping to move it forward.
Finally, special thanks to Bill Gottdenker who after three years will step away as chair of the Parents Fund as his daughter, Suzanne, graduates. Bill has headed up the team of Parents Fund volunteers who have the sometimes-thankless job of asking fellow parents to support Union (the
Parents Fund is part of the annual fund). He has always done so with a smile and a firm belief in the importance of parent support. We thank him for his leadership and wish him a well-deserved rest.
Many thanks to all of these families for their involvement.
We continue to work with the Parents Program Office as we wrap up the year and look forward to connecting with you in the fall. Enjoy your summer.
Tom McEvoy: What's there to do at Union?

At the beginning of the fall term '02, two freshmen wandered into my office. I can't remember their exact words, but the conversation started off with them asking me what there was to do at Union. They had the look of two guys who had just unpacked, said “adios” to their families, sized up their residence hall, and were looking to get out and see what this campus was all about. “Yeah, yeah, we know about the classes,” they seemed to be saying, “but what else have you got for us?” I sensed impatience. After all, they had been thinking all summer about coming to a school that promised an exciting experience. I steered them right next door, to the Office of Student Activities, and I don't think they have looked back since. Two-and-a-half years later, I see each of them a couple of times a week. Both have full plates, and I am sure I don't know half of what they do.
One is vice president of the Inter-Fraternity Council and a key student worker for the Office of Admissions, planning events for accepted students. The other is student rep for Wold House on the Minerva Council. He is also very active in his fraternity, Sig Phi. They go on ski trips, plan social events, and they are very plugged in to what is happening on campus. At least one is an orientation advisor.
They seem happy. And I think they sensed-from their very first days-that what they would get out of Union would be directly linked to their degree of involvement.
In his book, Making the Most of College, Richard J. Light, writes: “Even at a college as academically focused and intense as Harvard, most graduates have far clearer memories of their singing, or writing, or volunteer tutoring of recent immigrants, than of the details of the class on American History they took sophomore year.”
I think Light makes a good point. If you asked me what I remember from a college class, it'd be hard to say. What I do remember very clearly is sitting in a psychiatric ward as part of an internship, trying to be of some use to some very disturbed elderly people, one of whom kept repeating the words “Jimmy Tripp.” That I still remember her words and could probably pick her out of a lineup seems to prove Light's point.
So the message to students is: do something in your spare time. How do they find out what that something is and not spend most of their time playing on an X Box or Playstation 2? I think some students (my own sons in college would fall into this category) expect that someone will knock on their door and ask them to grace the college with their participation. That's not how it works.
The opportunities at Union are endless, but students themselves must take that first step. The Student Affairs staff is armed and ready to set the backdrop, advise and listen. However, it is up to the student to seek out an area of interest or two that will help make their Union experience truly complete.
The menu of opportunity at Union is staggering and there is something for everyone: A cappella singing with the Garnet Minstrelles or Dutch Pipers, student government, Greek leadership, the student newspaper, literary magazines, the environmental club, Theme Houses (Ozone House, Cooking House are examples), community service through the Kenney Center, Ultimate Frisbee, sports-intercollegiate or intramural, Minerva Houses, ALAS, CELA, Student Affairs Committee, Committee for Planning and Priorities, student trustees (with voting power on our Board of Trustees), search committees, resident assistant, orientation advisor, tour guide, admissions intern or ambassador, Intellectual Enrichment Grant Committee, Social Enrichment Grant Committee, U-Program with the Office of Student Activities, working with the alumni and development office or Becker Career Center, Christian Fellowship, Hillel, Newman Council, Outing Club. The list goes on.
There is plenty going on at Union, and the door is open for students to shake things up and learn something about themselves, their classmates, and their world. Students can have a direct and significant impact by stretching themselves and exploring options outside the classroom.
Like getting into a cold lake, some students will dive right in and others will want to test the waters with their big toe. That's OK. The point is to get in and swim. It's good for the soul.
Tom McEvoy is dean of residential life at Union.
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